Well, lets begin with the facT that I was running just on time today. Normally, I try to give myself a 15 minutes window or cushion when getting ready and leaving for school. I aim to leave around 7:30, but sometimes I do not get to leave until 8:00, which gets me there just in time. Today was one of those 8:00 days…I am passing all my usual road companions going in the opposite direction, listening to my ipod and yes…checking my phone for messages. Ok, so I may do this, but I know I am not the only one. After all, i do recieve texts from some of you. Well, here I am cruising at a comfortable pace just north of Denzil when a strapping young buck (barely had his antlers) came prancing out of the ditch on the opposite side of the road. I see him, he sees me. I have three choices. 1. Hit him square with the front of my car and risk the chance of having a permanent set of horns as hood ornament (symbol of a true red neck), if I survived. 2. Swervivng to the left to make my way down the the embankment which the buck just came up or 3. Swerving just enough to miss hitting him square on and take the brunt of the hit to the side of the car. I selected choice number three. It seems ironic I even had time to weigh these options before, but I distinclty remember making the decision. Well, my dear deer friend went to meet his maker today. Not before leaving a few strands of fur in my windshield trim and door handle. Not only did he leave these small gifts, he also left more permanent reminders….like the broken windshield, both the front and back panel dents and my doors with the new decorative “etching” effect.
After calling 911 to report this as I was not sure if I would have to attempt to break the neck of my new friend to quicken his passing or have an RCMP come and shoot the poor buck, a kind man in a transport truck stopped to help me out. Well, the deer died not long after landing on the road and my new friend in the truck pulled the carcus to the side of the road. I am sure it was quite a scene….me in my high heels and looking like a teacher, all dressed up, hauling a dead deer along the road.
I got to school, just in time, wrote in the announcement book about volleyball practice being cancelled, got my stuff settled in the class and started into my IP 10 lesson where the speakers did not want to cooperate while showing the class a screencast I did and a Youtube video. Well, the rest of the day went off quite well. Until….
I was rushing to get out of school and get back to Macklin so I could go visit the SGI (provincial insurance) office to get things rolling on my car. I put all my stuff in the back seat of the car, pulled my keys and cell phone out of my jacket pocket which I left in the back seat, thossed the keys and phone into the front seat and closed the back door. Went to open the front door and you can guess what happened. When I tossed the keys, something must have hit the lock switch on my keychain because now the car doors were locked. And, NO, I do not have a magnet box under the bumper of my car with a spare key. Luckily the custodian is a savior of sorts. He happens to have a pretty cool tool (slim jim) at his house. We worked for a bit on it to no avail, but really, the act of car theft really is a gift not given to all. So I decided I would call Canadian Automobile Assurance (CAA) to come to the rescue. It turns out we did not renew our membership this summer. I do remember having this discussion with my husband, but didn’t realize it had not been renewed after all. So I called the only towing company in the area that would have one. It turns out it costs $85 for him to come to Luseland from Kerrobert (15 minute drive) to unlock my door. So, I began the chase of looking for my husband. When he is finally located it turns out he is on the school field blowing things up (in the name of chemistry) and could not hear his cell phone or feel the vibration over the “explotions”. When he does get the message, he calls me at the school and agrees to drive to Luseland (1/2 hour drive) to come unlock the door. While waiting for Paul, I make another attempt to unlock it with the cool tool. One of the other staff members comes out of the school and says her husband is a mechanic and he might be able to help. She gives him a call and one of his partners comes down. Within 2 minutes, he manages to stick a wire through the door and window and unlock the door. Poor Paul, he was about 6 km out of town.
Well, I am not sure if there really is a moral to the story. Is it…don’t drive faster than the speed limit, don’t even think about using your cell as you drive, always have a spare set of speakers in the computer lab, never put your belongings in the back seat of the car and throw your keys to the front before closing the back door, all women need to carry a long piece of wire (copper coat hanger) in ther purse or always keep a spare key under the bumper by the radiator. I really do not think any of these are the issue here. The real issue is how you deal with the little things that come your way. At the end of the day, my students learned all the concepts I wanted them to learn, the IP 10 kids still managed to have a great time in class, my one accouting student wrote a great test (only 2 points lost), and my children had a great day at school (well except for the one with the bad social studies mark). Most importantly though is I was able to be part of all of these activities. I never wonder whether I would be missed if something happened to me….many other teachers have been doing what I have been doing for many years and will continue to do it, there are always replacements. But, I would have missed being part of my childrens’ lives. I know we have all heard the saying “don’t sweat the small stuff”. But really, I am telling you….DON’T SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF!!!! At the end of the day, if you are still alive and well, your family is home safe, you are trying to make a difference in your students’ lives and you know what it is like to be loved and to love in return, I am here to tell you….the small things really do not matter at the end of the day….you matter, your students matter and your family matters….PERIOD!